The Best Spots To Meet Single San Diego Girls (Expert Picks)

Three single girls in San Diego dancing at a club

When you’re looking to meet girls in San Diego there are going to be plenty of options for you. We’re blessed with a lot of bars, clubs, and other spots where plenty of women can be found. The hardest part is deciding which is right for you and which are a waste of time. That’s where we can help.

Like many other places in California, we get a great mix of locals, students, and tourists frequenting our city and many of them are single and looking to mingle. From the Gas Lamp to Del Mar, we’ve put together a proven list of spots where meeting single girls in San Diego and finding hook ups is easiest.

We’re going to cover the best bars and clubs as well as great places to try during the day. Then at the end, we’ll cover some great spots to take a girl after you meet for the first time. Buckle up!

Our Favorite Places to Meet Hot San Diego Girls

Let’s start things off right! These are a few of the absolute best places for meeting single girls. We go into more detail and include a lot more options afterward but these are some of the best to start with:

Parq is always a great option to start with

Several girls at Parq nightclub in San Diego

Parq, at 615 Broadway, is the nightclub that has been one of our most reliable ways to meet girls in San Diego. From Thursday through Saturday this has been one of the spots that consistently gets a lot of single women, especially good-looking ones.

It definitely fits the bill of loud, bright, and boozy with a lot of dancing and drinking going on till late in the evening. If you’re not a confident dance (you don’t have to be good) this can be a little more challenging but it certainly isn’t a deal-breaker.

Friday and Saturday nights are the most popular and it can get pretty crowded so be prepared. Drinks aren’t cheap either so you might want to pre-party. On the plus side, this place is full of single girls but a lot of them are just looking to hook up.

San Diego Club crawl is an amazing way to meet women

Group of people from the San Diego Club Crawl
San Diego Club Crawl is one of the best options out there right now for guys. It isn’t a single bar or club but 4-5 different ones that you get to try out all in the same night. No more putting all your eggs in one basket!

What really makes this a great option is there are often a lot of girls who are on the club crawl as well. It’s a really easy environment to mingle with the other club crawlers as you check out the various different clubs. It’s a lot easier to meet random strangers if you’re all on the same adventure together.

It usually costs about $25 and that will take care of any cover charges as well as providing a drink or two along the way. It’s a lot of fun and a great way to meet a lot of other people in a low-stress situation.

San Diego Pick Up Bars & Nightclubs

Girls resting from dancing at the Onyx Dance Club in San DiegoEveryone knows the usual hot spots around Gas Lamp, Pacific Beach, and even OB. These all have a lot of bars and clubs and can be a lot of fun to wander around with friends.

Our favorite clubs and pick up bars that you should try first:

Where we haven’t had much luck:

As you can see from the list above there are a lot of different bars and clubs that are worth checking out. There is a good mix of laid back lounges, high-energy clubs, and more divey bars depending on what mood you’re in. The one thing they do have in common though is that they are among the easiest places to get laid in San Diego.

Do yourself a favor and check out some of them. The more you go out the better you’re going to get at approaching girls and creating attraction.

Best places to pick up girls in San Diego during the daytime

If you’re more of a morning person who isn’t looking to stay up all night meeting women there are a lot of great options during daylight hours. These might actually be better options for a lot of guys out there!

We’ve had a lot of success with local coffee shops, grocery stores, and other popular places that aren’t necessarily known as hook up spots. They aren’t exactly “secrets” but there is a lot less competition here and women tend to be easy to approach. If you’re not a club guy check these out:

Coffee shops single girls love

Coffee shops are such a great option to meet single women in the city. The atmospheres tend to be very low key, it’s really easy to have a conversation, and it’s natural to strike up a conversation when standing in line or taking a break from your drink.

We’ve had a lot of success in coffee shops and you will as well with a little bit of practice. Girls in San Diego love a good cup a coffee and a lot of them can spend hours handing out in a coffee shop working, reading, or just relaxing.

Grocery stores that make meeting single women easy

  • Trader Joe’s – 1072 Camin Del Rio N and 1640 Garnet Ave
  • Whole Foods – 711 University Ave
  • Vons – There are a bunch but the one at 515 W Washington St is pretty good

You might not think that grocery stores are great for meeting San Diego girls but you’d be wrong! Every girl has to eat and a grocery store is a really easy place to strike up a conversation. You’re really going to be surprised by how easy it is.

These are our favorite places for picking up women, and groceries, during the day. The best time to go tends to be between 4 PM and 7 PM when women are getting off of work and picking up their food on the way home.

Other great options to pick up girls

  • Grape Street Dog Park – 1998 28th St
  • Walk around Pacific Beach, Mission Beach, or OB
  • Anywhere around UCSD

These are the larger locations that just tend to attract a lot of single women. Walking around during the day is bound to provide a lot of opportunities. If you’re struggling to pick up women in San Diego it’s likely because you just aren’t spending enough time out and about.

Where to find a hook up in San Diego

If you’re not looking for a relationship and really just looking for a San Diego hookup this is where you need to go first:

The easiest place to get laid in San Diego is Fluxx

Group of girls who want to find a hookup in San Diego

Fluxx, at 500 Fourth Ave, definitely isn’t for everyone but if you’re just looking to hook up and don’t mind paying a cover it can be a great option. It might not be the most fun place to hang out and meet girls all night but it attracts a lot of women who are after what you’re after.

We wouldn’t recommend going there every night, but if you want to have the best odds, and don’t mind dressing up a bit, it can be solid.

The San Diego Girls Dating Plan

Know exactly where to go when you go out looking for girls in our recommendations above. Here’s a map to help you out!